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Happiness cannot be given.

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    Happiness cannot be given.

    By admin | blog | Comments are Closed | 9 December, 2020 | 0

    You cannot make anyone happy. 

    Don’t let another person depend on you to make them happy, to make them feel good about themselves, to fulfill them, to heal them, or to rescue them. 

    The only person capable of doing that is them.

    What you can do is listen to them, cheer them on, ask them hard questions, give them honest answers, believe in them, be sincere, hold their hand, kiss their forehead, wipe their tears, put on the band-aid, forgive them, let them, and love them. 

    In the meantime, you can make yourself happy, make yourself feel good about yourself, fulfill yourself, heal yourself, and rescue yourself.

    Also: No one can make you happy. 

    Don’t depend on another person to make you happy, to make you feel good about yourself, to fulfill you, to heal you, or to rescue you. 

    The only person capable of doing that is you. 

    What they can do is listen to you, cheer you on, ask you hard questions, give you honest answers, believe in you, be sincere, hold your hand, kiss your forehead, wipe your tears, put on the band-aid, forgive you, let you, and love you. 

    In the meantime, they can make themselves happy, make themselves feel good about themselves, fulfill themselves, heal themselves, and rescue themselves. 

    #whenimnotthereimhere

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